Now that we can get married in so many states, now that we can adopt children, now that we can bear children on our own, gay males are without question settling into more stable ways of dating, expressing our love, and getting into relationships.
There is a great hunger on the part of many gay men to be in stable, loving relationships and this just might be a driving force behind the possible rise in intergenerational couples.
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Now, there have always been intergenerational gay couples but they do seem to be more common these days.
One reason might be the shift towards more conservative, traditional views of couplehood.
For the younger guy, what could be more stable than an older, more mature, more emotionally balanced man?
And for the older guy what could be more validating then to know you are desired and treasured by the youth and beauty in your arms?
When you put the natural propensity of older to like younger (at least physically) with female-like "attraction switches" in younger males you get the high possibility of an intergenerational couple.
When you look at the photos on our list of celebrity gay couples with big age differences and see the love that is clearly present between them it's hard not to ask yourself, "What does age mean?
How does any intergenerational couple make it in an ageist society?
The answer, it seems to me, has more to do with younger guys than it does with older guys.
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