Truth never fails us and speaking the truth is what is required of all of us if we are going to serve God properly.
So, why don't we get right into the "meat" of your situation and get the truth out up-front so that you will know what is coming next!
Her relationship with YOU can delay her being reinstated! Because JWs are encouraged to only have relationships with other JWs and this is one reason why she wants YOU to have a Bible study!
Her father wants BOTH of you sitting right beside him in the Kingdom Hall making a good show for all the congregation to see!
This will make her father look good, and make his daughter look good.
She was disfellowshipped when I met her and just recently returned to the organization about 6 weeks ago.
I wasn't sure how I would discuss with her father on the issue.
Does your girlfriend have any idea what she will be facing in an attempt to get reinstated?
She is going to have to go to ALL the meetings and if she misses even ONE of them, there had better be a good reason why.Her own father is not allowed to be speaking "spiritual matters" with her until she is reinstated.She will most likely be required to go to the meetings for a period of one year and sit there and never be spoken to.I just set a date for a "Bible Study" for June 28th. It's a long story how this happened, but I said that I would do it.His daughter and I have been dating for about a year and a half.She will probably have to arrive at the Kingdom Hall late and leave the Kingdom Hall early before the meeting ends, so that there is NO chance for any of the other JWs to speak to her.