He’s graduating sooner than you are, and he knows it.Upperclassmen usually aren’t in it for the long haul when they seek out a freshman girl that they’d like to hook up with.No, we can’t be certain that what all guys are looking for is sex, but that’s definitely a part of college hook-ups.
If you’re interested, all it takes is a slow pack-up-and-hang-back after class to initiate conversation.
Find out where the hot spots are each night of the week(end), and make sure to show up every once in a while.
Your freshman year is meant for new beginnings, not dwelling on old relationships.
Phone calls between Texas and Massachusetts won’t bring you back together – it’ll only keep you from meeting new people that are just beyond your dorm room door. As casual as these settings are, it can be a great place to get to know a guy or meet someone new. A mother’s wisest words – if guys see you going out night after night, how will they ever get to miss you?
Just because he’s lent you a bunch of attention one night, don’t assume that he’ll be chasing after you for the rest of the semester.
That is, of course, presuming that dates aren’t obsolete anymore.The puppy dog thing will get old after a while, leaving him feeling stupid/angry and you feeling unfulfilled, annoyed and guilty – not to mention that other guys you might actually become interested in will get the wrong idea.They’re part of the college lifestyle, and you can choose if you want to engage in them or not (certainly, you can avoid making out with the guy you’ve been dancing with all night if you’re just not that into it).Know your boundaries and ask him – whether you know him well or not – to respect your boundaries; if he doesn’t, walk away.There are always the guys that have no qualms about coming in between a group of girl friends just to get some action.Take it easy if you’re just getting your feet wet with the whole dating game, and don’t feel a need to rush into anything intense. Show face as often as you can without being that girl that everyone expects to run into.