I haven´t travel much to say women from other cultures are cold and dismissive, I do not think they are. My girlfriend came from a dating site and she is the perfect mother and business woman.
If you fell in love with the country or just the ladies here are some tips on how to date a Colombian woman. And this rule is universal before you begin any relationship.
Trust me, I have been in a relationship with one for over 4 years and since I am Colombian myself, I get them . If you got over your first one you must now know not to select a girlfriend based just on her looks and sexiness. If you want a true partner to build a relationship with and possibly a family focus on her personality and background story.
You might not even know how the steps go and it wouldn´t matter as long as you move her around and make an enjoyable time or both. Nothing turns down a woman more than sitting on the table drinking all night. We drink it in tiny glass shots and do not even taste it as it doesn´t taste good. Even if it doesn´t get to this, the headache the next morning will be horrible. So drink aguardiente but make sure to space out your shots in long terms, especially by the end of the evening. If she smiles with both lips and mouth, she is yours. Compared to other cultures, physical contact is very normal and they might stay close to you.
Foreigners are not expected to know how to dance fluidly so there is no judging…but lots of smiling and giggling and this will make you look cute and funny. But do not interpret this as in invitation to bed them, try it and you will ruin everything. We just do not understand why Europeans would not shower any given day.
This must be the strongest cultural disparity compared with Americans and Europeans.
If you plan to take the relationship to the next level, you need to be liked by the family, and not so much dad or mom, but grandma. She is the one that makes the “He would be a perfect husband” call. Take her a gift, preferably a sweet from your country. Dad would like to hear from your line of work and your studies. Mom is happy if dad, grandma and her little daughter are happy.
Sure, at first glance Colombian women are all hot and you can snatch one that is both smart, caring and sexy, but if “hot” is your prime objective I guarantee you will end up with the gold digger that will only bite your ear for a Visa to America or Europe and require a credit card to stay “fun." You will find the easy sexy latina on various dating sites and just by the bikini photos you can tell what kind of women she is. Most are desperate in solving their economic situation and usually have a young boy they had at a young age.
But don't go into it believing she will be the perfect wife.
Experience the warmth of beautiful exotic women under the surroundings of Colombian comfort and charm.