Of course, there is more to it than that as I explain with the ungettable girl but when generalized the women who I have to chase and “pull” are the ones that have me wrapped around their fingers. One attractive woman I ended up wanting to date was a great pusher!I ended up spotting her across a room and I was drawn in by her looks.
It’s all about getting your ex to chase you again and the best way to accomplish that is to make him the puller.
Of course, when you are on a date you have to be aware that the push/pull mechanisim is in play here.
In other words, you are the puller while your ex boyfriend is the pusher. When I learned about push/pull I found it very relevant and true.
The women who I seem to be the most attracted to are always the ones that are pushing me away at the beginning a little bit.
So, rather than listen to me ramble on all day lets just cut right to the chase!
Before I even talk about “the date” there is an important concept that I need you to understand.
The puller (one who shows interest) will not be pursued by the pusher (one who shows disinterest.) Meanwhile, the puller (interest) will most likely pursue the pusher (disinterest.)Lets apply this new found, albeit complicated, knowledge to YOU! I will explain why in a moment but first I need to explain the effect push/pull can have on men.
I could be entirely true that one of the biggest reasons you want your ex boyfriend back is because you feel rejected. One of the biggest advantages to this site is that I am a member of the male species so I can give you direct insight that not many others could give you.
Throughout this site I talk a lot about how to get your ex boyfriend back.
I talk about the different strategies, tactics and methods that you can employ to help your ex find his way back into your loving arms.
In fact, it’s so important that both my books, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO&The Texting Bible Use this concept.