Tell him how cool that he has this connection, especially since it set you up to enjoy this lovely restaurant with him. The conversation then takes one of two paths: talk about his career or further talk about the financial needs of businesses. Men want to hear about your achievements and want to know that you can keep up, even surpass them, intellectually.You can tell him about your connections and clients later. But men deal with the alpha-side of women all day long. If this man is going to drive home anxious to see you again, you don’t just want to stimulate his mind; you want to stimulate his spirit.Doesn’t matter, because there’s a good chance you’ll never hear from him again.
But for a young woman to be interested from the start in someone her father's age? Judging by the many reader comments to that column, there are many people who share your view that a man in his 50s is unrealistic if he expects to marry a woman young enough to be his daughter.
It's true that May-December marriages sometimes happen.
Maybe you were just sharing and showing him that you have things in common.
Or maybe you thought he was bragging and you wanted to be sure he knew that you’re no slouch when it comes to being “connected” and appreciating the finer things.
Let him be your hero and imagine yourself as his queen – if even for just for a few moments.
All I have to do is look at my husband and the partners of countless women who are friends and clients and know that grown-up men want smart, accomplished women as lovers and wives.
This man has many achievements and leads a full life.
Not only does he want his partner to be a smart and independent woman, he requires it. One common complaint by men is that smart, successful women tend to be competitive on dates.
If you happen to be among the many of us who unknowingly turn off good men this way, I bet you see the positive results immediately. Are you ready to have some fun on your way to Finding The One? I will show you the Must-Do’s and “Definitely Don’t Do That’s!