Reading the Bible together on a first date is probably not a good idea. Definitely don’t lay a fat one on her on the first date. it might not work out and you could be out hundred bucks… Don’t feel like you have to touch or hold hands, etc. Make a great impression on her parents and vice-versa (if this is feasible).
In the pilot episode of the series, the story of Christians Shanna and Ryan overshadowed every other participant on the show.
The couple abstained from every sexual activity, including kissing until marriage, and shared an uncomfortable first kiss at their wedding ceremony.“Virgin Diaries” brings to mind what choices teens and young adults today must make in their relationships, begging the question of what intimacy is appropriate for unwed Christian couples?
Dinner is always good but a movie could be a little awkward…
Dinner and a movie is not always a great first date.
The guy should always open EVERY door for the girl (i.e., car door, restaurant door, etc) The guy should always pay. Side hugs are great first date ‘touching’ ice-breakers. Don’t seclude yourselves where you are not around people.
The Evaluation: Ask her if you can call her tomorrow.
Along with raising questions about sexual behavior ahead of marriage, “Virgin Diaries” has ignited responses from viewers and critics who accuse TLC of “intentionally patronizing” the show’s participants and shedding a poor light on abstinence.
Adding to concerns that young viewers may be deterred from practicing abstinence, segments from “Virgin Dairies” have been featured on comedian Chelsea Handler’s television show as well on as on Ellen De Generes’ talk show, where scenes were cringed at and ridiculed.
The Bible says in Ephesians 5:3, “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity…
because these are improper for God’s holy people.”Although the Bible does not specifically name activities, many pastors and Christian counselors strongly urge couples to not go beyond holding hands, hugging, and light kissing before marriage in order to avoid event a “hint” of sexual indiscretion.
Try not to have too much hand sex (yeah you know what I’m talking about). Kiss (there is a myth in the Christian culture that Christians should not kiss…